Thursday, June 27, 2019

Loosing Does Not Mean Giving Up

By Ryan Davis


Sometimes in our lives we have to face a challenge that will change the way we look at things. It changes our life in a manner that you may no longer know who you really are and what you are doing. But no matter how we look at the situation, we do not have a choice but to do it. Its only right to make an action if you believe that such act is for the goodness.

We are all afraid of changes, yet we seek for it all the time. If a certain thing is no longer entertaining, we tend to find another. But we are afraid that if we do so, there are possibilities that the second one could fail. That is what actually the problem is, we all never want failures.

As a matter of fact, one failure does not define you as a person. There are many reasons why a person fails. In our lives, health and mental condition are sometimes the reason why we fail. In sports, lack of proper training or overdoing it may be a reason for failure. Such is only natural so you there is no need to worry about it, there is always a next time.

To retreat is not tantamount to giving up, nor giving up to losing. You may encounter a situation where you can no longer carry the burden. Do not worry my friend, it is fine to pause for a bit. God has a better plan for you. You just have to believe and pray for a better outcome the next time you do it again.

All big things actually came from a very small beginning. No one started from the top, and nothing has even started big. In a race, you have to begin from the start. You will not be able to win a match by starting at the end. Even the greatest fighter in the history of boxing suffered countless of defeat before he became the champion.

Indeed, life is actually a gamble. We have the choice whether to bet or not. In betting, we have to understand that there is a chance of winning and losing. Of course, that is how our system works. We cannot expect everything to run in our favor. Balance is not having all the things you wanted. Balance is giving a change to others for them to win.

You cannot have all the things in this world. But you can try to acquire the things you really long for. There is no prohibition to dream of impossible, dreaming is actually next to having hope. If a certain person loses hope, he or she also loses the desire to live. But if that hope remains unchanged the will of such person will be strong as a concrete facade.

We do not have to bother ourselves about our broken bones and wounds, people really care not about such things. If you are already at the top, they only see your success. But to inspire other people, sharing such experience is really a great help. A machine only works if there is fuel in it.

We have to remember that all things come with a price. And the price for success is to work really hard. One cannot have all the things in this world but he can try at least. Such is in fact the best thing in our society, no one will stop you from doing you best in order to achieve you goal. Parents and families are always there to support us in every decision we make.




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